We all experience shock or trauma at different stages of our lives, but not everybody is broken by it.
Successful people do not have an easy past. Though when hit with painful trials, most people chose to live in fear as they stumble in their trials and get burned but for strong people, they do not allow the tribulations to control their lives instead they are resilient, heal and come out stronger.
Most times, people remain in pains because there is an absence of motivation to carry on, you also know people who are living in pain merely by their low self-esteem.
While it may take some people many years to overcome pains, some people overcome and get better within a short period of time, instead of focusing on the awful thing that happened to them, they find a way to see the brighter future and use it as a source of strength. Sometimes all we need is a little shift in our perspective. When we start looking at the beautiful life after the pain, we will accept that there is nowhere to run except to face the challenge. It worked for strong and successful people because slowly, the pain will start to disappear until they learn how to deal with the impact.
When we focus on the pain, the feeling of fear and sadness might overcome us, but seeing the beautiful life-after should strengthen us.
People who are strong and successful got that way because they found a way to see a beautiful life-after while in adversity. You can either focus on the pain or chose to see the beautiful life-after! So carry on our winning woman we know you will choose right!